One Step Up, Two Steps Back

OK, not really, but several things have changed since the last update here.

The lady friend, for various reasons, has ended up being more of a platonic soulmate than a girlfriend. Think Modesty Blaise and Willy Garvin. She's probably the best friend I've ever had, but despite what I thought for a while she's just not going to be the great romance of my life. So, various things in my life that were changing because of that relationship are back to pretty much being where they were before.

For one thing, I'm jumping back into the SCA with both feet. I made the first steps toward doing that last year, and got sidetracked by a number of things - some real life issues, the several months that the lady friend and myself were trying the dating thing, the very low level of participation in the local shire. As well, I ran into a small but unpleasant bit of bad feelings related to old issues from ten years ago and backed off for a while to give myself time to think things through. Now, though, I'm taking that part of my life back. I love being Friar Thomas - he brings out the best parts of me. I love the other people in the SCA - from the most quiet and "normal" to the...well, to the folks at the other end of the spectrum...it's a big extended family of kindred spirits that I always love my time with. And I love the Current Middle Ages. I love my mundane life, too, especially doing PI work and spending time with my wonderful family, but there's nothing like pavilions and heraldry and mighty battles and feasts and bonfire revels on weekends. Besides, how else will I ever become the most dangerous swordsman in Auburn? So away I go, starting with Crossroads of Jerusalem next weekend. I plan to help out with anything that needs helping with and serve feast and have a great time meeting people and watching the rapier combat. My last bit of rapier gear gets ordered next week, and the group over in Montgomery has practice most Sundays. Soon enough I'll have fighting to look forward to at events....finally, the chance to cross blades with worthy opponents. After Crossroads I have a day trip to Fools' War to look forward to, and Dreamstone, and Lusty Month of May...I might even make it to Border Raids this year if a couple of things work out.

Yeah, there are a few people out there with a serious dislike of me from the problems back in 2000. But there are a lot more who either still love me or don't care one way or the other. I'm not going to let a less-than-handful of dislikers dissuade me. Friar Thomas is back, and he's back for good.

Related to the SCA, the vardo project is definitely back on effective immediately. It's probably going to take me all spring and into the summer to get it built and finished; even if I can get the end panels and bed supports cut by someone who knows what they're doing cutting the rest of it and drilling everything is probably going to take several full days - then there's putting it together, and caulking, and sanding, and priming, and painting, and working on the trim, and LOTS of working on the interior... But this is good. It'll keep me busy, give me something to work on besides school and World of bloody Warcraft, and at the end of it I'll have one of the (if not THE) best event vehicles in the Kingdom.

Things Change, Mostly For the Better

It's been quite a while since I updated this, and there have been quite a few developments in my life. The quick rundown:

My confusing and chaotic love life has settled down very nicely, and I'm now in a great relationship that I really think may be The One That Lasts. Not gonna get into much detail about private stuff like that here, but I will say that she makes me very, very happy and I love her more than I love pepperoni and extra cheese pizza. That's a lot of love there.

Also, and this ties in with the Happy Girlfriend Status, I've put the vardo project on indefinite hold. It's still something I want to do someday, mind you, but there are several factors keeping it from being the Right NOW!!!! project that I'd planned on making it. As things stand right now, the SCA is probably going to be a couple of times a year thing for the foreseeable future rather than being on the much heavier schedule I was planning on before; my lady friend doesn't have any problem with my doing it, and is even a bit interested, but she is NOT the camping type and has a world class aversion to portajohns. As much as I love playing Friar, I love spending time with her more and that means I don't really need a specialty camping vehicle that would look totally weird under any non SCA conditions. Also, there's the small issue of parking and storage...the issue being that I don't have anywhere to park or store it without really imposing on friends or family. Thus, the vardo project is on hold.

However, with that out of the way I've been really pondering the possibility of picking up a used van this summer or fall and turning it into a camper. It fills my Adventure Vehicle need better than the vardo for anything other than Gulf War or Pennsic, doesn't stand out the way a gaudy Gypsy wagon does, and is a lot easier to find parking for. When it comes down to the bottom line, I'm happier right now than I have been for many years...but I'm happiest when I have some sort of project like this to work on. A camper van project will satisfy my tinkering urges very nicely, give me something to spend time on besides World of bloody Warcraft, and be wonderful fun for weekend trips and even longer adventures. Plus, with the right electronics and a few bits of equipment it can even work as a surveillance van. Win!

So, life continues apace as do my Small Adventures. New people join the journey, goals change, but the road through this world full of wonder and strangeness still meanders ahead. Time to wander a bit farther along the road and see what turns up...